When I fail at something ,
My instinct is to immediately make my goal smaller. Ah I am not good at "This", I am not good enough for "This" nice/Big/Risky/Ambitious goal, I have to settle for "That" easier/less riskier/blander option instead. Fixed mindset! I am ashamed, I dont want to look like I am failing, so chose an easier option and pass instead ( At this point, I want to rant about how irritating and wrong this is and how I am a self sabotaging B etc, but all that is again coming from Fixed mindset, so I wont, even tho I kinda did :-P )
Instead - I add a step goal, which is the easier/less riskier/blander option , but This is the interim goal, This is only a step towards reaching my Original goal Growth Mindset! I am not ready for This Yet! I am not embarrassed to Aim high! I am not settling, I am learning and growing and not flinching from Hard work and many tries and failures and many more steps than expected may be!
My instinct is to immediately make my goal smaller. Ah I am not good at "This", I am not good enough for "This" nice/Big/Risky/Ambitious goal, I have to settle for "That" easier/less riskier/blander option instead. Fixed mindset! I am ashamed, I dont want to look like I am failing, so chose an easier option and pass instead ( At this point, I want to rant about how irritating and wrong this is and how I am a self sabotaging B etc, but all that is again coming from Fixed mindset, so I wont, even tho I kinda did :-P )
Instead - I add a step goal, which is the easier/less riskier/blander option , but This is the interim goal, This is only a step towards reaching my Original goal Growth Mindset! I am not ready for This Yet! I am not embarrassed to Aim high! I am not settling, I am learning and growing and not flinching from Hard work and many tries and failures and many more steps than expected may be!
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