I wrote in this blog  http://mystic-babe.blogspot.com/2021/04/how-should-one-bring-up-their-child.html

Another striking example was - today kids who are brought up by kind caring parents are doing very well for themselves, kids who are left to take care of themselves are getting into gangs and having a miserable life. No question about it that kind parents are doing better right? but What if - tomorrow war breaks out and situation turns out like in Syria or Congo or something? And their parents and relatives die? Who will do better in that chaos? Right? Every upbringing possibly has a silver lining - almost every one.   

 I was thinking of this in the context of Taliban taking over Kabul, The situation turned over night into a nightmare, It is exactly the situation where tough kids/tough adults may see that silver lining after all.