I got thinking today morning, with all these extra years behind me - Do I agree? Do I see grey in things now? First answer was - Yes... I may have been too judgmental before, now I leave a lot more margin, when I "judge". ( not exactly the right word is it? Its making me uncomfy! I don't judge!!!! no! not me!! :-P! :D )
Then it was - "Right!" "Wrong!" " how could they possibly!" "how can anyone be like that!" "THIS IS THE WAY!"
Now its - "Oh.. Ok..." "Great!" "Thats sad!!" "There are more ways to be right... not just one... " "God knows what's going on in their life for them to behave like that, how can I possibly know!" "B@#$@#$!! but oh well..." "To each, his own !"
So.. I believe in grey now?? Hmmmmm...
I realize.. Black and White or Even grey, are but ways used by us,to interpret life!!! no?
Life as such is not black white grey!!! or anything!!!! You learn; u figure out ways to categoriese things, behaviours, based on your experience u device an approach - Black and white! grey! something in between [yellow! red! sea green! Mera wala blue! Fushia!!? :D :-P] Grey is just another approach just like black and white. depending on you, one of them fits. right?
I like this classic example of perception - This picture can either be interpretted as an young lady or an old woman. so when u have seen both, what do u think is actually the picture?... The picture is just black in spots on white paper( Grrr.. .background) ( or may be white blot on black paper? :-P ) Its neither a old lady or young woman! right?
Just like that... things are but interpretations..... thigns are neighter black and white nor are they grey. things are just things and we - we need these BW G to interpret them.[And I know ppl, who will call this statement grey!! Grrr]
cant we just let go and just be???
Thats what I am trying! :) To just be!
Bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz ...
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